She may affectionately refer to you as ‘Precioso’, ‘Cielo’, ‘Amor’, ‘Rey’, ‘Vida’, ‘Carino’ but ‘Papi’ takes it to a different level. An independent, strong-willed Colombiana will never refer to you as ‘Papi’.

‘Papi’ which translates as Daddy, is a word when used in a relationship, is showing and telling her man that she is his, no doubt about that.

When a Colombiana calls you ‘Papi’ she is giving up any independence she may have had in her relationship with you and that you are basically her man, her master in all sense of the word, but not in a bad sense as many may come to think.

Some men may not want a relationship like this. But Colombianas like a confident, strong minded man, who makes the decisions in a relationship and those that do seldom have problems in their relationship.

A Colombiana respects this in a man, ‘Papi’.

The Zen Buddhists say that we attract into our lives exactly what we put out for the World to see.

Papaya Caliente

• 4 ounces white rum

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