If given all the time in the World, when you are sitting all alone by yourself, what do you do? Because that is probably the thing you are most passionate about. That is probably the thing you should have always done.
Being alone gives you a wonderful opportunity to figure out what truly makes you happy and gives you the perfect chance to get to know yourself better. Being alone grants you the time and freedom to do whatever you want on your own schedule and allows you to put your needs, desires, and ambitions above all others.
Being alone will help you realize and understand that your happiness does not have to depend on someone else’s presence. You need to be able to be happy alone first, and love yourself in order to give your Love to someone else and have a successful relationship. If you do not know what is going to make you happy, how can you expect someone else to? You need to know and experience what real Love and happiness is like by yourself before you commit to loving someone else.
Get to know yourself by spending some time alone in solitude. Do something that will help you relax and focus on your mind, body and soul. Go shopping, take a bath, listen to some new music, have a glass of wine, watch a marathon of your favorite show and do not feel guilty about treating yourself or making yourself a top priority. When you stop thinking about how other people can make you happy, you will soon realize what it feels like to be happy alone and be able to learn to love and accept yourself from the inside out.
Read a great biography, watch an inspirational documentary, start a new business or create a new website. Lose yourself in your art, music, woodworking, cooking or any other meaningful work. Choose your time wisely and make sure that at the end of the day, you were happy and satisfied with what you accomplished.