You are way to serious, way too often, turning everyday situations into problems, constantly looking for shit to complain about and worrying about things that simply do not matter. It is good to handle your business and get serious about personal growth, love and being the best person you can be, being too serious will hinder your ability to enjoy an awesome life.
The reason why the whole World has not naturally turned spiritual is because people are too serious, dead serious. Maybe not fully dead, but half dead or partially dead. Being partially dead is torture. Once you become very serious about something, your whole perception is distorted. When you are too serious and anxious about something, you do not see anything that is around you properly, everything is distorted.
Spirituality means, you have realized that the way you know life, is not enough; that you want to know life a little deeper. Unless your perception is enhanced, unless you enhance your ability to perceive life, you will not know anything deeper than the way it is right now. If you want to enhance your perception, you need to become fully alive and involved in all that there is. If you become exuberantly alive, you cannot be serious.
When you become too serious, you lose all sense of life; your perception will be greatly obstructed. If life happens within you, you will be a certain way, and that is the only way to be. But if you reduce your aliveness, both laughter and tears will have gone out of your life. If life has to happen, it has to happen with a certain buzz and exuberance; otherwise, you will not know life.
You will only know the thought process and emotions that are happening within you. The psychological mess that happens within you is not life. It is something that you create.